Friday, January 3, 2014

The Tatting Shuttle

Friday, January 3, 2014
Small Stone

While sorting through my craft basket I found a red plastic tatting shuttle.  Way back when I taught a tatting class.  I walked into the room with all the silver-haired ladies and introduced myself.  I have to smile when I remember the looks on their faces.  After all, who expects a 20 something year old to be teaching a tatting class? 
Now if I walked into a room to teach tatting, no one would blink an eye!


Stereo-typing, we all tend to do it, even if we don’t want to.  You take a class to have someone teach you an ancient form of lace making, one that is dying out because young people aren’t learning it, and it’s a young woman teaching it.  Where’s that grandmotherly, kind, and sweet woman you expected?
I wasn’t upset by their reaction, I was amused.  The ladies laughed a bit about it then settled down to wind their thread around their shuttle.  It was a fun class.  They learned about tatted lace and I was able to listen to stories.  I learned about family, about loss, about laughter, and resilience.  These ladies were strong, no matter what life handed them they could regroup and recover.  I learned respect.
Thank you Goddess that, no matter what our age, we have the ability to be able to draw from what ever aspect of you we need.  We can be playful and adventurous. We can be nurturing and fertile (in ways other than child-bearing).  We can be introspective and wise.  We can do all these things at any age. 
Yes, She is all.............


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